Concerns

Anger

Anger is often the visible tip of something quieter — hurt, fear, exhaustion, injustice. When it erupts faster than you can think, or simmers as sarcasm and silence, relationships pay the bill. Anger work is not about becoming passive; it is about getting your choices back.

Signs it might be time to talk

  • 0-to-100 flashes over small triggers
  • Regret and apology cycles that repeat anyway
  • Sarcasm, coldness, or stonewalling as default weapons
  • Physical surges — heat, clenched jaw, raised voice
  • People walking on eggshells around you
  • Anger at home that never shows at work — or vice versa

These signs are informational, not a diagnosis. Only a qualified professional, in conversation with you, can assess what's going on.

How counselling helps

  • Spot the early body signals before the explosion
  • Find the feeling underneath the fire
  • Practise expressing needs before they become grenades
  • Repair relationships strained by past eruptions

Approaches that often fit

Fair questions

Asked often, answered honestly

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